Through Her Eyes: A Man's Guide to His Wife's Need for Romance - Softcover

"A practical, readable, guide for any husband who sincerely wants to have a growing marriage." Gary D. Chapman Ph.D., author of The Five Love Languages.
Men often do not take the time to learn about their wife’s need for romance. So, when his bride expresses her frustration, he will often inquire through exasperation, “Just tell me what to do and I will do it.” Ladies often respond with something like “If I have to tell you what to do, then it is not romantic. That doesn’t count.” So, what is a guy to do? Guys often do nothing, and then get blindsided by their wife’s unhappiness. Romance is an important part of marriage.
R. David Morrow is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 27 years of experience in the mental health field. He is also an ordained minister in the Christian faith, and has earned a Masters of Divinity in Pastoral Counseling. He has spent thousands of hours assisting couples to identify their unmet needs and find ways to work together synergistically. In Through Her Eyes: A Man's Guide to His Wife's Need for Romance, R. David Morrow uses Biblically based direct man-to-man language, to teach you what your wife needs, why she needs it, and how you can make it happen without feeling like you have lost your man card. Then, he will give you 23 practical ideas that will help you develop your own style of romantic creativity. Each chapter is short enough to be read while you are sitting on your throne. So, saying you don't have time is admitting to yourself and ultimately to you wife that she is not important enough for you to put forth some effort and try.
Ladies: Maybe you are concerned that your husband will not read a book like this. Yet, you know your need is real and important to you. The ideas presented in this book can help you learn how to talk with your husband about your need in a way that he is able to understand. Generally, men are very task oriented, and want clear expectations that outline the path to success. Men struggle with the idea that you are not looking for specific actions. Rather, you are looking for the evidence that his actions reveal. You need evidence that love for you is still in his heart. Therefore, the actions must be initiated by him and come from his heart. This book will help you give him general ideas about romance, and hopefully, he will learn how to develop the art of romance.

R. David Morrow is a licensed marriage and family therapist and also an ordained minister. He is a graduate of Campbell University in Buies Creek NC, and also The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, KY. Since 1990, David has been working full time in the mental health field, and has also served in part-time and volunteer ministerial positions including minister of music and worship arts as well as adult ministries pastor. David most enjoys working with couples, particularly couples that are blending two families. He is passionate about helping individuals develop the type of relationship that meets each of their individual needs and also is respectful to all members of the family. When David is not working, he enjoys spending time with his wife and family, creating and recording music, and playing golf with friends.